Wednesday, July 2, 2008

what do I do?

A few years back I accidently ran upon a few porn sites my hubby was viewing. Seriously it was an accident. He walked in as I accidently found them. I told him that this of course bothered me. (and yes men it is because us women think you're thinking of these other women because you feel we're inadequate and all that other jazz) He promised me he would never do it again.

A couple times since then I have actually snooped to see if he was still viewing, of course he was. I brought it up once and of course he denied it.

Well recently I've discovered he's doing it again. He has great opportunity when he gets home before I do from work. Or say on a day he stays home from work sick. It's not like I haven't offered to purchase some videos that we can view together. Or try new things during sex to help with those fantasies and stuff. What more can I do?

So my question... why do men insist on watching this stuff? Really, do we not satisfy you enough?

Any men who pass by let me know. Are you in a relationship? Does your partner know? Have they caught you before and you told them you would stop but still did it anyway?

Women? Have you caught your partner? Did you confront them? What'd they say? As far as you know, are they still looking?

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